This Reader’s Mail Is A Must For Every Young Girl

Hmm, these are the kind of stories I like to post. Please send us stories of mistakes you have made in the past, you never can tell how many people you will be saving from doing so. You have made the mistake, the younger generation shouldn’t make it, please let’s learn from your mistakes. Thank you. Now back to the story of this 31-year old lady.

Please help me post this please. I have something in me that is really burning inside of me and decided to share it with people as they say a problem shared is half solved. I will try and make my sad story brief.

It all started when i got into the higher institution some 15 years ago. I was very young, naive, beautiful and vulnerable. Right from secondary school days, I’ve always loved showbiz, partying n all, so getting into poly was like i was let loose, at a very tender age of 16, left to stay alone in such environment. In no time I made friends who were ‘big gurls’, we became the talk of the campus in no time flying our colors everywhere we went. We attended & even organized big bashes on campus.

Life was sweet I was having a blast, so I thought attending classes was on a rare occasion as I felt I was too big to do so. we dated only the biggest guyz(fishes) in town(strictly married men pls. was our slogan) with only one aim – solely for the money, treats, gifts,etc. be it local or tokunbo all the while i was between 16-17yrs.

OND was over n out of school with no results all carryovers but i couldn’t care less. The ‘fun’ even became worse. we moved to rented apartment in lekki and even had more recruits, where I jamed a tokunbo fish, married with three kids, serviced him for the while he was in Nigeria even traveled back with him before unluckily for me his wife found out. The affair resulted in a pregnancy which i didn’t even hesitate to flush as soon as i got back home and so I did with many other pregnancies I had for married men.

I continued living the life. It was so interesting little did I know what I was doing.

Eventually I got married at 24. Thought I could easily get the pregnancy I had always flushed, now its Six years after going on seven and still no pregnancy not even for once. I know God must be very angry with me now for having flushed about 12 pregnancies ( could be more lost count already).

Just decided to share my story with you all and especially to young ladies out there who are into this same practice I beg you in the name of God almighty STOP pls its for your own good. I know its difficult, but u’d be glad you did in the long run. its not a fairy tale its Real. That’s my story so far I pray God turns my story around for good.

Source: LadunLiadi‎news.com

15 sexy tips for surviving a long distance relationship

Long distance relationships can be lonely sometimes, but being far apart doesn’t mean the end of your sex life.

Although it takes a special commitment and bond to make these relationships last, you can make the time go by quicker until you’re reunited.

If you’re looking to stay close even when distant, try these ideas to stay connected and turn up the heat.

  1. Explore your fantasies: Time apart is the perfect time to discuss your innermost desires with less pressure and judgement. Start by suggesting something you’d like to try, and see what your partner would love in return.
  2. Share something sexy: Did you find a hot clip or pic that turns you on? Or stumble across a sex tip you can’t wait to try? Send that link to your partner. It will let them know you’re thinking about staying intimate. Don’t forget the NSFW warning.
  3. Make a naughty coupon book: Get out your markers and paper and get ready to be crafty with a twist. Start your coupon book with cute and romantic suggestions like kissing, caressing and massaging, then progress to more x-rated ideas. Send the coupon book to your lover, with a promise to try each one soon.
  4. Sexting: Let your partner know what you’d love to do to them and how incredible their hands and tongue feel on your favourite body parts.
  5. Gifts: A little special something lets them know you’re thinking about them. Try chocolate, lingerie, a new toy or a heartfelt, sensual letter.
  6. Long distance stripping: Whether by phone or webcam, long distance strip games are great to feel like you’re getting naughty right next to each other. It could be virtual poker, truth or dare, or a game where you guess facts about the other person. Whatever you choose, get ready to go bare!
  7. Have a lingerie photo shoot: Go to a classy lingerie boutique, try on your favourites and snap a few well-posed photos while you’re in the changing room. Send your favourite pics to your partner, than buy the one that makes him swoon the most.
  8. Spontaneous commands: If you’re into controlling each other’s pleasure a bit, try texting little commands throughout the week. It could be something simple like “wear your sexiest panties and show me tonight” or something naughtier like “take five minutes to leave work and play in the bathroom”.
  9. Sexy Snapchats: Surprise your partner with a cleavage shot, an up skirt angle, or go all out with lingerie. Try it while he’s at work for extra excitement.
  10. Phone sex: Whether it’s sexting, phone sex or Skype, your phone can help keep the spark alive. Hear your partner’s moans of pleasure as you chat about your fantasies and desires, and act them out candidly in your imaginations.
  11. Have a lingerie photo shoot: Go to a classy lingerie boutique, try on your favourites and snap a few well-posed photos while you’re in the changing room. Send your favourite pics to your partner, than buy the one that makes him swoon the most.
  12. Spontaneous commands: If you’re into controlling each other’s pleasure a bit, try texting little commands throughout the week. It could be something simple like “wear your sexiest panties and show me tonight” or something naughtier like “take five minutes to leave work and play in the bathroom”.
  13. Record a sexy video: A strip tease or sensual, suggestive clip can ignite your partner’s imagination. Try licking your lips and winking if you want to keep it light and playful.
  14. Write an erotic story: Practice your literary skills with an erotic adventure featuring you, your lover and your fantasies. Share it with your partner for some sexy late night reading and conversation.
  15. Skype sex: Watch your partner getting off in real time. There’s nothing better than seeing your partner’s O face, especially when you know your fantasies took them there.
  16. Have long distance date night: Set a date where you sit down in front of a webcam, have dinner, chat, and watch a movie together. Intimacy is always sexy. Set a date and decide which fantasies you want to knock off your bucket list then set a date to reunite and try them.
  17. Try a long distance couple’s sex toy:There’s many toys out there controlled via smart phone, and some are even controlled by the other’s toy. You’ll feel your partner’s motions and get to control their sensation, as if there were no distance between you at all.
  18. Sexy Snapchats: Surprise your partner with a cleavage shot, an up skirt angle, or go all out with lingerie. Try it while he’s at work for extra excitement.‎

    Source: pulse.ng

For Men – 7 Ways To Keep Your man-hood healthy!!!

‎1. Be sexually responsible. If you are not married, abstinence is the key. Use condoms and be faithful to your partner who’s been tested and is free of sexually transmitted infections.

2. Get vaccinated. If you’re age 26 or younger, consider the human papillomavirus (HPV) vaccine to help prevent private part warts.

3. Stay physically active. Moderate physical activity can significantly reduce your risk of erectile dysfunction.

4. Practice good hygiene. If you’re not circumcised, regularly clean beneath your foreskin with soap and water.

5. Know your medications. Discuss medication use and possible side effects with your doctor.

6. Pay attention to your mental health. Seek treatment for depression and other mental health conditions.

7. Stop smoking and limit the amount of alcohol you drink. If you smoke, take the first step and decide to quit — then ask your doctor for help.

Remember, some man-hood problems can’t be prevented. However, routinely examining your man-hood can give you greater awareness of the condition of your man-hood and help you detect changes. Regular checkups can also help ensure that problems affecting your man-hood are diagnosed as soon as possible.

While you might find it difficult to discuss problems affecting your man-hood with your doctor, don’t let embarrassment prevent you from taking charge of your health.

Source: information Nigeria